Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Who I Am.

Yesterday at work was funny, going thru my calls trying to follow the "script" we are supposed to read that continues to escape me but I was managing to pull off (so I could rise above my ranking of almost dead last, which is not like me, but who I am I suppose today).  Then I get a call.  I look at the d.o.b. and she was born in 1923.  Her membership had expired and her insurance lapsed.  She was trying to sell the Cadillac the she hadn't driven, she realized, in about a year but needed to get it legal to sell it.  I just sat and listened as she talked about people talking about trying to buy it from her.  To get her membership back in place and get insurance on it would have probably cost a couple hundred dollars.  Then she mentioned driving it to someone who wanted to buy it.  I finally stopped her.  I asked how many miles it had on it and got on my PC and blue booked it for her.  I asked her if anyone had offered her anywhere near $3500.  She almost choked.  I said "this is just a personal note, first tell me you won't be driving this to anyone alone, then go to DMV get a temporary tag for probably $1 a day, they should have 3 day trip permits, then tell everyone you are asking $4500 and let them talk you down to $3500, make them come get it and make someone give you a ride to get the temporary tag".  She almost started to cry.  She doesn't have internet and needed all of my information to write a letter about me.  It took another five minutes to get all of that information together.  Total call time probably over 20 minutes.  No one chimed in to ask what I was doing or why it was taking so long.  I hope someday that letter reaches AAA and I am blessed with reading it.  The next 3-4 calls all told me how nice I was and thanked me for being helpful.  That is me and who I will always be.  I'm not even sure why I had to share that.  As I sit in tears today for so many reasons good and bad.  Grateful for what I have, wishing I had accomplished more and knowing that one little old lady somewhere in CA won't be taken advantage of and wishing I could just go help her. <3

Prior to that was the FB post to my best friends dad.


I stayed off here on Fathers Day for a few reasons. Had to make sure today to tell you thank you. Thank you for being my dad. For showing me what dad's were supposed to be to a little girl who needed it so desperately. For loving me like your own, protecting me when it seemed no one else ever would and for making room for me when you had so much on your plate already. Love you dad.  

I am still in the process of trying to inspire the San Bernardino Sheriff's department to solve the 1999 murder of my bio father and his wife.  My step-dad is not worth mentioning except for the fact that I know what I know about cars to have helped the lady above because of him.  I am well aware now that was his way of keeping men away from me, but it didn't work out the way he planned, ha.


and not to forget the hardest post ever....  a feed from Facebook about my late friend (Brutal) Julie (Morgan) Lovelace-Ochoa (Griffin) from her husbands page:

You are welcome sweetheart.
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  • You, Natalie Hefferon Sauli and 23 others like this.
  • Chrissy Eurich You must have done something amazing!
    Like · Reply · 3 · June 21 at 6:29pm
  • Dave Ochoa I've been known to do that from time to time.
    Like · Reply · 6 · June 21 at 6:30pm
  • Shay Diaz-Keene You definitely did something right! Good job my friend! And, she has beautiful handwriting by the way!
    Like · Reply · 4 · June 21 at 6:44pm
  • Sonia Webb Awe cry emoticon Brought a tear to my eye hun.. 
    I always use to say to her that I live vicariously through your love story..
    A love fairy tales are made of. She'd reply with an "Awe" and a lil story.. She was so happy.. so knowledgeable. .

    Man I miss her presence. 
    Hugs. ♡
    Like · Reply · 2 · June 21 at 7:02pm
    • Dave Ochoa That's sweet.... But that's not from Julie.....
    • Sonia Webb Sorry hun. 
      Turning red now ..
    • Sonia Webb U can delete my comment hun..
      & I'm happy for you.
      You deserve some sunshine in your world. smile emoticon
    • Dave Ochoa NO... I won't delete it.. It's OK
    • Sonia Webb I did mean my comment and not ur post. ..
      Just ta be clear. .lol wink emoticon
    • Dave Ochoa I know what you meant. Still not happening honey. Lol
    • Sonia Webb K.. smile emoticon
    • Tami Tillman I was going to say the same thing Sonia. It's not easy to watch Dave move on. But I suppose if we care for him we are going to have to. I started to cry, then got mad, loving her will never go away. Loyalty is a tough thing when someone passes and someone is left to move on. I am definitely having a tough time. She wouldn't want him to be unhappy, and that little bit of anger/sadness truly comes from, for me, truly the fact that she should have had him her whole life. It would have looked funny or been illegal if she dated him in high school though. heart emoticonand there it is, her sense of humor will thankfully always be a part of me. Thanks for having the "stuff" it takes to post things and attempt to finish out this life happy. You know you'll see her on the other side. That is a pretty awesome deal if you think about it. Hell I hope she will be there for all of us, otherwise I'd be afraid to go heart emoticon

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